Saturday, September 13, 2014

Breakthrough Secrets Discovered by a Stay-at-Home Mom TRANSFORM her child with ASD... Download

Picture yourself enjoying the happy smiles on everyone’s faces at your child’s 17th birthday party…


Your child is happy dancing with their girlfriend or boyfriend. Good friends are close by chatting and laughing. Even their work colleagues have shown up to celebrate with them. This heart warming image may seem a little far fetched to you right at this moment in time; however don’t worry it was once just a pipe dream for me too… Until I discovered some easy-to-use principles which transformed my son (Brandon) from the depths of despair and depression, to the happy-go-lucky, friendly 17 year old he is today. So let me share a little of Brandon’s story with you here today…


When Brandon was a little boy – I have such fond memories of myself and he playing "hide and seek", digging up worms in the garden, and making the best mud pies in Queensland (Australia)!


Back then he really enjoyed life and lived it to the absolute MAX – until something really, really scary happened to him. The frightening and chilling spectre of… School!


From the very first day when he sprinted out of class, crying floods of tears and declared "I’m NEVER going back" – I knew there’d be trouble… Pretty quickly the other kids discovered my son was ‘different’, and they knew they could get instant entertainment from him. They knew no matter what took place, they just had to run off and leave him to take the blame from the teachers. Yet he never took the blame, he just got more upset and ended up throwing a full blown melt down, which would make the teachers send him home. It was a no win situation for my son Brandon. Some days I could drop him off and by the time I arrived home the school was ringing me to pick him up again! He was being bullied and the teachers just didn’t seem to want to help him one little bit.


"Our little boy went from loving himself and enjoying life to a little boy who loathed and hated himself…"


Brandon began to feel very overwhelmed anytime he had to go to school. No one liked him! And though he could not communicate it… He still felt strongly and knew in his own way he had no friends, the teachers loathed him and he was so alone and sad. I used to find him just sobbing under the quilt in his bedroom. His unfriendly peers and equally unhelpful teachers were literally tearing his poor young soul into pieces. Over time his behaviours began to come strong and heavy because problems were getting worse at school. And this went on for 3 years… It all reached a chilling climax on Valentine’s Day in 2004 (when Brandon was 8), when…


So while every other child was sitting there opening cards and giggling on this "fun" day; our son was made to sit there and just watch. Not even the teacher made a card for him, which I actually found the most hurtful! Then I received the phone call… Brandon had "lost it" in class and they wanted me to pick him up. Which I did; however no-one at the school even bothered to let me know what had happened. So Brandon stormed into the house and nearly slammed the bedroom door off it’s hinges. I left him alone for 5 minutes, because I knew he needed downtime before I should approach him. To kill time I emptied his school bag, cleared the kitchen table and began peeling some carrots for dinner.


Brandon was nowhere to be found, which sent a chill down my spine because I knew he had not left his bedroom… My heart was now beating SO quickly because I feared he had jumped out his window (he had done this a few times before)… However I soon realised he couldn’t as the screen was still on the window… I looked under his bed… there was no one there. Then I looked in his wardrobe because I know he used to like curling up in his wardrobe when he was younger. And there was my little man, the love of my life, hanging from the rod in his wardrobe while his hands were in the tie around his neck. My mind went blank except for the immediate "life and death" need to get the damned tie off his neck and to talk to him… To try to figure out what in the world had happened to make my beautiful son want to end his own life.


"Slowly I undid the tie around his neck – and I took him in my arms and just hugged him… he laid and sobbed in my arms"


We cuddled together on his bedroom floor and I told him I was going to ask a lot of questions and he needed to answer them. Brandon managed to stifle his sobs and meekly replied “Okay”. Brandon told me the story about the Valentine card giving and told me… “No one likes me mum, so I wanted to die", however then I changed my mind and I could not get the tie off my neck!” So here I am sitting with my son who I just had to save from trying to hang himself, and I was feeling: Anger at the adult who allowed my son to feel so excluded and isolated in front of his peers Resentment to the other parents for not teaching their children how to accept ALL others regardless of any "difference" Sadness because I had bought a vulnerable child into this world of hate and meanness, and yet I was… Giggling because here he was sitting there talking about how he had thought about suicide, and then how he had changed his mind, yet could not get the tie off around his neck!


"I was giggling because my gorgeous boy (with just the biggest blue eyes) was looking so confused as to…



Breakthrough Secrets Discovered by a Stay-at-Home Mom TRANSFORM her child with ASD...

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