If you answered yes to ANY of these questions then this might be the most important letter you’ve ever read…
Hi! My name is Steve Scott, and up until recently I had ALL of these problems. At one point in my life, I was a complete loser when it came to talking to women. No matter how hard I tried, I could never make them interested. It was like I was wearing a magical “girl repellent” that only women could see.
What made it even worse was my stuttering problem. Whenever I got nervous around women (which was 99.99% of the time), I would literally fight for words, trying to make ANYTHING come out. The worst feeling was not the rejection. It was that look of pity that would cross their eyes as I stammered like an idiot.
It’s hard to be a shy guy with a stuttering problem. I literally made myself sick at the thought of having to approach women and start conversations. So I escaped into the world of online dating and used it as a way to ‘get girls’.
I thought my fortunes changed when a girl named Lisa started emailing me! She was smart, beautiful, and had everything I wanted in a girlfriend. We spent hours on the phone together. And I even stopped stuttering when I when we talked. I thought I finally found my ‘dream girl’!
Finally after a month of an ‘online relationship’, I mustered up the courage to invite her to party being thrown by my friend Dave.
Have you ever met someone who can seduce women with little to no effort? That’s how you could describe my best friend Dave. He’s one of those naturals with women and always has a hot chick at his side.
I’ve been friends with Dave for a long time and knew his parties were always fun. I thought that it would be the perfect event to bring Lisa for our ‘first date’. (I had this fantasy that the party would be a great place for ‘making my move’!)
Unfortunately the night turned out to be a disaster! The moment I introduced Lisa to Dave, I had that gut-wrenching feeling where you realize you’re about to experience a LOT of pain. When Dave locked eyes on her, he had a hungry, predatory look in his eye. I knew he had set his sights on my ‘dream girl’.
And my stomach dropped when Dave asked how Lisa and I knew each other. She then uttered those words that NO guy wants to hear:
I won’t bore you with the gory details of their conversation. Bottom line is I knew they would be having sex by the end of the night. (Remember- I’ve watched Dave do this countless times with other women)
So try to imagine this feeling…You meet your ‘dream girl’ and start to fall in love with her. You get the courage to ask her out. And then when the big night comes, you watch helplessly as your ‘best friend’ steals her away! Picture in your mind what this feels like. Think of the pain and humiliation I felt at that very moment. It sucks, doesn’t it?
It was because of this mental anguish that I made a VERY bad decision. But it was a choice that changed the course of my life…
Watching the two shamelessly flirt with each other, I decided to ‘drown my sorrows’. In fact, I became so drunk I was forced to stay at Dave’s place. And later that night, I was forced to listen to the sounds of Dave and Lisa having sex!
This was the proverbial ‘straw that broke the camel’s back!’ Hearing them in the other room brought out all the years of frustration over my inability to succeed with women. I truly felt like I would never find a girl to love me and I would be alone forever!
And in front of a dozen people, I started sobbing like a little girl. Now these weren’t just a few tears rolling down my face. This was the kind of crying jag where you get choked up and you’re balling your eyes out.
After this night I made an important decision: Either I would fix my problem OR I would simply give up on women.
Fortunately I did have one thing going for me… My friend Adam was also successful with women. And unlike Dave, he was a guy who truly cared about helping his friends. In a very candid conversation, Adam told me something that completely changed my love life.
‘“Steve” he said, “Anybody can start a conversation with a woman. MY secret is I’m able to communicate with them in a way that INSTANTLY creates sexual attraction!”
At first, I was really confused by what Adam told me. But my jaw hit the floor once he gave me this simple example…
Adam said: “Look man, most guys approach women and bore the HELL out of them. They ask predictable questions and do NOTHING to spark that initial interest. Me, on the other hand, I always communicate with women in a language that immediately challenges them. I tease the crap out of them, but they LOVE it. And I talk about things that are EMOTIONALLY exciting to them. You would call this FLIRTING. By the end of the conversation, most girls are practically begging to go home with me”
This simple conversation changed my life. Adam went on to explain how most guys never flirt with women, and the ones who did were able to do this led very sexually satisfying lives.
And to make a long story short, Adam’s advice led me on a path towards mastery with women. Now I won’t bore you with the details of my own personal journey. Suffice to say, I’ve experienced a LOT of success with women.
The important…
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